does liqor or drugs get rid of inhibition!!?

Alcohol or Street Drugs are not the way to go. The after effects will cause further problems, especially when they are psychological issues. Here’s what you should consider:

1) Get a new doctor:
There are good psychs and bad ones out there, just like any profession. Try a different one who doesnt use counselling but is experienced and recommended in the field of medication.

2) Consider meds:
As above, once you have a trustworthy doc, get some solid advice on LEGAL drugs that can help your problems 10x more effectively. Sometimes these feelings can make you think you’re the only one going through them. Be hopeful in knowing that there’ve been others before you and they have found something that helps. Just got to find the RIGHT advice, and not some shrink who gives lipservice so he can keep you coming to his office every week and pay the hourly fee.

3) Read books and free online articles:
In this day and age, theres self help advice for just about ANYTHING. Some people may find it ‘hokey’ but there is some good advice to be had if you are willing to put some time into it. Be careful with online articles that plug a specific product or medication…. its possible that its just a marketing technique by the pharmaceutical to get you to buy their product/medication. In my research for my psych problem, ive learned that everyone is different, and there is no ONE cure that works in all cases. Give it time.

4) Seek an online/local community:
Psychological problems can make you feel isolated. Rest assured knowing that there are others going through the same issues and can shed some light on what works for them. This is probably the first thing you would want to do… go online and find other people who have social anxiety, like an online chat forum specifically for people who have the same problems as you. Slowly opening up to them could train you to become less anxious, and its always best to get reccomendations for doctors that these people have tried and gotten a positive result. Just remember that any suggestions from others about meds are handy to consider, but everyone’s body is different, so reactions to meds will be different. Of course, the final advice should come from an experienced doctor, and realize that finding the right solution is a step-by-step process that will take some time to get it just right for you.

Remember the goal is to find out what the real problem is and solve it. Sometimes medication alone, although helpful, isnt the best ‘cure’ in the long term, and requires further social therapy or diet changes. Be patient, and know that there is hope in living a normal life. Life is a beautiful gift, and it can be for you to.