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I think my roommate is shooting up heroin. Any advice?
Question by savestheday0288: I think my roommate is shooting up heroin. Any advice?
I have been living with this guy for about 3 months now. He’s told me a lot about his past and how he used to be a heroin junkie who finally went to rehab and became clean.
I guess you could say we’re good friends by now.
Occasionally we’ll smoke pot and hit a few coke lines but only once or twice a month. Nothing too major.
He doesn’t tell me but I know he still occasionally snorts heroin. He also asked me if I would ever have a problem with him using a needle and I told him never to do that shit around me. Period.
Also talks a lot about how he’s pretty clean now but tonight I noticed something. He spent a half hour in the bathroom with nothing but the water on. When I went in after him, I smelled rubbing alcohol. I had bought rubbing alcohol prior to moving in so I checked and the bottle is almost empty even though I’ve never used it. I also found the top half of a metal spoon in the drawer. When I left the bathroom I saw him with his belt around his neck.
Is he shooting up? This is what I’m assuming. I hope I’m not right but missing rubbing alcohol, finding a spoon in the bathroom…and knowing his history kind of make it hard not to be.
What should I do? Keep in mind he is still my friend but if I have to, I will take charge.
to oldies:
I don’t think it was boredom. I think he’s relapsing because he used to be a junkie. He told me stories about how he would steal money from his parents to score. I’m not worried though, I keep great track of everything and nothing is missing, not even my money.
Obviously I can’t type the WHOLE story here on Yahoo!Answers but we’ve got 2 months left on the apartment lease. A part of me is saying “ufck it” because we’ll be going our separate ways soon and it really shouldn’t be my problem. He’s a friend but I don’t feel close to him like that you know? I’m at a very odd crossroads…
Thanks to all who answered, whether you condone drugs or not. For the record, I’ve been smoking pot for about 6 years now. Sometimes once a month, sometimes twice every six months, etc. I live a very healthy lifestyle, no fast food or soda, and I exercise regularly. I was brought up as a muslim by my parents and I know my limits wholeheartedly. You guys are right, but the only thing I could see ever turning into a problem would be the cocaine, which after this situation last night, I’m stopping for good. =)
(I don’t think the high is worth all that money…)
Thanks again!
UPDATE
My instincts were correct. I just found a syringe under our big couch. I’m gonna confront him in a few hours when he gets home and let him know that I’m done with all that drug bullshit and if heroin is his choice then I’m leaving and he can live by himself.
Thanks everyone again! I’ve never had to deal with this situation in my life and you all have been a great help.
Best answer:
Answer by mightyginger
get out GET OUT you can do much better than that.
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about 1 year ago
tell him/her to go to reehab and try get off or just get advice there
about 1 year ago
good to know kids in college are still haveing fun……..i thought from watching tv these days that kids had all gone disney on me…………..
about 1 year ago
wow.
You need to talk to him about it
Maybe send him to rehab again
Act like a worried friend
not a mother/father
Tell me how it goes
peacee <3
about 1 year ago
Move before he sells all your gear and you come home to an empty room. Junkies have no friends only the rubbing alcolhol and the next hit.
Dont try to help because he has been there before, tell whoever is in authority and move out.
I have tried to help a junkie no good I got ripped off and no one cared about me.
Something else you are not helping if you smoke pot and do lines with him. A junkie is like an alcolholic they cant stop once they start theres only one road for them.
about 1 year ago
hello there well it looks like he is back on the herion that seems certain, you need to confront him about this you dont want him getting to bad on this drug it can make you do almost anything to get a hit, you should mayb think about finding another place to live.. you dont wanna share your house with a junkie..
about 1 year ago
its more then time to take charge.. you know he is doing it..and if he is a real friend,you will take him to a rehab and get him clean again and get rid of all drugs..that means no smoking pot,or doing a few lines… he was bored with that and wanted something more,so he did the heroin.. not good. what are yous thinking? you both need help,dont kid yourself and think you dont need it… you have seen the clues,now go do something about it and both get cleaned. drugs are so uncool…. make a real life and stay away from drugs forever.. now go take care of your friend and yourself….
about 1 year ago
It is major when you and he are using drugs like pot, cocaine and him using heroin. And by the way, you said not to use a rig around you so he has not done so. He has respected your wish and used it in the bathroom which is away from you. The most advantageous thing either of you can do is take each other down to the nearest place of rehabilitation (though no such thing exist but its the closest label to what is able to be done) and support each other through a tremendous debilitating past now in rescue. The chance of remaining friends after the lease is unlikely and you may well find that he gets clean before you ever do. The degree of addiction is not whats important. What is important is the two lives which may well be wasted. I did drugs of most kinds for a major portion of my life and I;ll tell you its like sex,…once ya had it ya gotta seek what ye might find but in this case its your friends hand there to help….lol.
TIMEFOR THE HOLY BIBLE AND SOME OF CHRIST LOVE IN YOUR LIFE YOUNG MAN.
about 1 year ago
Hello and Kudos to you for reaching out for advice. I am an adult female of 43 and am grateful I came to my own senses.
I know cocaine seems like an innocent drug to many, however… that;s how it started out for me. It was a weekend party drug that kind of ruined my life for many years. 15 to be exact. I functioned, worked and lived a life of drugs and lies. Most people can not just stop using, it increases like it did for me, a couple of lines, a gram, 2 grams then entire 8 balls. Done, I just woke up one day and said that’s it, and walked away and never went back.
Please, be a friend, let him know your suspicions and tell him exactly what you think, but as in a friend that cares kind of way. Tell him you need to talk, sit him down and explain all your feeling and concerns because you care! Heroin is the absolute worst of all drugs you may know. Don’t give up on him, it’s our responsibility as caring humans do help others that at times can’t help them self. Once you separate, keep in touch with him and tell him you will do so. 3 mos isn’t long enough to cure him so you will already be separated, let him know he’s cared for, let him know he’s in danger of hitting rock bottom in life if he hasn’t yet. God bless, and why don’t you give up the occasional use of coke to prove your point, for both you and him! Lot’s of luck to your friend and yourself! Keep faith!! No matter what! Carole
about 1 year ago
Well, my first suggestion would be to stop doing drugs with him! He has a problem if he’s been in rehab and shouldn’t even be smoking pot or doing coke. For him to do that it is major! If what you wrote here is true then even Stevie Wonder can “see” he’s getting high!