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I’m 17. Kicked out..Mum is making me choose family or my heroin addict boyfriend, Advice asap please..?
Feb 2nd
Question by Ruby: I’m 17. Kicked out..Mum is making me choose family or my heroin addict boyfriend, Advice asap please..?
Okay so i’m 17 years old, live in the uk if that helps.
Been with my boyfriend for near enough a year now, (we did have a 3 month split though) i lived with him for 5 months until we split, this was due to the fact my mum and my family didn’t like him because he is a heroin addict (don’t judge please). He is on methadone. I thought the world of him, in the end it got to much with the trouble from my family we had to split.
Anyway we got back together and my mum told me i couldn’t see him she would throw me out the house if i did.. anyway i felt so low i actually ended up takng crack and heroin with him (my own choice) my mum now knows about my drug use as i accidently injected and OD. I still smoke it (i am also getting help and getting subutex to get off it)
In the mean time my mum has thrown me out the house, i’ve had to go and move in with my dad (he doesn’t want me there he asked my mum to take me back, she won’t) he is never there always working or out drinking. I feel so alone, my mum is also on about banning me from coming and visiting her unless i get clean and stop seeing my boyfriend. She calls me fat, a druggie, junkie, smackhead ect…!! things like that don’t help me..!! She also says horrible things about my boyfriend too.
I don’t want to be living with my dad, he isn’t there for me, it doesn’t feel like home, and i just feel so alone, Yet when i visit my mum i get arguments and judgement. I can’t win the only place im happy is with my boyfriend. I also have no other family i speak too apart from dad, mum, brother and they all think the same.
Thing is i can get clean and im going too but i can’t leave my boyfriend i do love him and he has more or less stuck by me through everything and my family caused him alot of greif but he still wants to be with me.
My mum is also moving quite a while away very soon so i have no choose if im moving with her and not seeing my boyfriend again or stay here and loose her.
She has said i need to choose between him and her… i can’t, i want my family and my boyfriend.. i can’t choose, help???
Best answer:
Answer by Josh
Okay…you need to go w/ family here…eventually he will get you addicted just like he is and pull you down w/ him…Family will actually get you somewhere in life!!!! FAMILY!!!!
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Q&A: 17, kicked out.. My mum is making me choose family or my heroin addict boyfriend, advice asap?
Feb 1st
Question by Ruby: 17, kicked out.. My mum is making me choose family or my heroin addict boyfriend, advice asap?
Okay so i’m 17 years old, live in the uk if that helps.
Been with my boyfriend for near enough a year now, (we did have a 3 month split though) i lived with him for 5 months until we split, this was due to the fact my mum and my family didn’t like him because he is a heroin addict (don’t judge please). He is on methadone. I thought the world of him, in the end it got to much with the trouble from my family we had to split.
Anyway we got back together and my mum told me i couldn’t see him she would throw me out the house if i did.. anyway i felt so low i actually ended up takng crack and heroin with him (my own choice) my mum now knows about my drug use as i accidently injected and OD. I still smoke it (i am also getting help and getting subutex to get off it)
In the mean time my mum has thrown me out the house, i’ve had to go and move in with my dad (he doesn’t want me there he asked my mum to take me back, she won’t) he is never there always working or out drinking. I feel so alone, my mum is also on about banning me from coming and visiting her unless i get clean and stop seeing my boyfriend. She calls me fat, a druggie, junkie, smackhead ect…!! things like that don’t help me..!! She also says horrible things about my boyfriend too.
I don’t want to be living with my dad, he isn’t there for me, it doesn’t feel like home, and i just feel so alone, Yet when i visit my mum i get arguments and judgement. I can’t win the only place im happy is with my boyfriend. I also have no other family i speak too apart from dad, mum, brother and they all think the same.
Thing is i can get clean and im going too but i can’t leave my boyfriend i do love him and he has more or less stuck by me through everything and my family caused him alot of greif but he still wants to be with me.
My mum is also moving quite a while away very soon so i have no choose if im moving with her and not seeing my boyfriend again or stay here and loose her.
She has said i need to choose between him and her… i can’t, i want my family and my boyfriend.. i can’t choose, help???
Best answer:
Answer by ~♥ beautiful nightmare ♥~
choose ur family …blood is thicker than water….n relationships dont last……if u pick him over them ull regret it :/
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17..Kicked out..!! Mum is making me choose between family and my heroin addict boyfriend, Advice asap please?
Jan 31st
Question by Ruby: 17..Kicked out..!! Mum is making me choose between family and my heroin addict boyfriend, Advice asap please?
Okay so i’m 17 years old, live in the uk if that helps.
Been with my boyfriend for near enough a year now, (we did have a 3 month split though) i lived with him for 5 months until we split, this was due to the fact my mum and my family didn’t like him because he is a heroin addict (don’t judge please). He is on methadone. I thought the world of him, in the end it got to much with the trouble from my family we had to split.
Anyway we got back together and my mum told me i couldn’t see him she would throw me out the house if i did.. anyway i felt so low i actually ended up takng crack and heroin with him (my own choice) my mum now knows about my drug use as i accidently injected and OD. I still smoke it (i am also getting help and getting subutex to get off it)
In the mean time my mum has thrown me out the house, i’ve had to go and move in with my dad (he doesn’t want me there he asked my mum to take me back, she won’t) he is never there always working or out drinking. I feel so alone, my mum is also on about banning me from coming and visiting her unless i get clean and stop seeing my boyfriend. She calls me fat, a druggie, junkie, smackhead ect…!! things like that don’t help me..!! She also says horrible things about my boyfriend too.
I don’t want to be living with my dad, he isn’t there for me, it doesn’t feel like home, and i just feel so alone, Yet when i visit my mum i get arguments and judgement. I can’t win the only place im happy is with my boyfriend. I also have no other family i speak too apart from dad, mum, brother and they all think the same.
Thing is i can get clean and im going too but i can’t leave my boyfriend i do love him and he has more or less stuck by me through everything and my family caused him alot of greif but he still wants to be with me.
My mum is also moving quite a while away very soon so i have no choose if im moving with her and not seeing my boyfriend again or stay here and loose her.
She has said i need to choose between him and her… i can’t, i want my family and my boyfriend.. i can’t choose, help???
Best answer:
Answer by Harmony
Don’t be stupid.
You’re going to have to choose your family.
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Beginner DJ Equipment – How to Choose
Jan 5th
Learning something new always presents a challenge.
DJing is no different.
But before you can start learning, you’re going to need some beginner DJ equipment to practice on.
For someone who doesn’t yet know the trade, it’s hard to know what DJ equipment to buy. Equipment can be expensive, and for many, it can be hard to lay out a lot of cash for something you know little about.
On the flip side, you want to learn things correctly the first time and you want solid beginner DJ equipment that gives you room to grow, teaches you the correct habits and skills, and provides you the best bang for your buck.
So who do you ask for guidance in choosing the best beginner DJ Equipment?
First of all, there’s no substitute for visiting (or calling) a DJ shop if that’s a possibility for you. Doing so will give you an opportunity to look at different beginner DJ setups while talking to an expert who can guide you based on your personal needs and budget. Plus, you might end up with a few tips to help get you started.
This is definitely the best choice.
In some locations, there are also DJ classes, or private teachers. These experts can be another great source of information. They’ll probably have good beginner DJ equipment already set up for use during training session, and this can be a great way to test out equipment before you buy.
Third, you can go online and look for reviews. Online reviews of beginner DJ equipment can be a great way to get pressure free advice from the comfort of home. While this is the most convenient option, you do lose the ability to look at, and try out the equipment.
Finally, DJ forums can be another good source of information. A number of online forums exist where DJs “hang out” and answer questions posted by users. If you post a question on one of these forums, you’re sure to get the input of a lot of experienced users, and some newbies as well.
While this requires registration, it may be a great starting point before you walk into a store.
It is important to understand that everybody is different, so keep that in mind when you read the advice of other DJs.
The best plan of action is to call or speak to a store that specializes in DJ equipment. They’ll have the most experience helping DJs that are just starting out and they’ll be most able to help you get what you need while working within a more limited budget.
Why Should I Choose Slim in 6?
Jan 5th
There are a gajillion health programs out there. Surf the late night infomercials and you’ll see hundreds of different products or promotions, each promising the perfect body and complete and utter joy if you just do as they say. From experts down at the gym to advice guru’s online, everybody has an opinion, and everybody seems to disagree. So what should you, a regular Joe or Jane who just wants to get in shape, do? Whom should you listen to, and whom should you believe? The best advice is for you to educate yourself, start with a challenging but introductory program, and to simply get moving. And Debbie Sieber’s Slim in 6 is the way to do just that, and here’s why.
First, it’s a six week program. This means you’re not committing yourself to a three month ordeal, you’re not paying hundreds of dollars as down payment on a gym membership, but conversely it’s long enough to be a legit program that will get you to work out sufficiently to see results. Second, in six weeks is the optimum time to take you from beginner to intermediate level, and to give you visible results that will excite and enthuse you further. Finally, six weeks goes by in a flash. Blink, and it’s over, and already you’re well on your way to meeting your fitness goals.
Debbie has been teaching fitness since the early 90′s, and she clearly knows what she’s talking about. This program was designed to take anybody from a sedentary or low activity lifestyle to an active and athletic one. The program is customizable so that any range of individuals can benefit, and allows you to progress at your own pace. Like any workout program, the degree of intensity and commitment you bring to it will determine your successes, but Debbie makes it easy to commit: through a winning, Mid-Western personality to fun and varied workouts and a nutrition plan that will tone and slim you down, Slim in 6 is really the way to go.
What’s it based on? The idea of Slim Training is such that you work out each muscle continuously throughout the week, preventing it from bulking up and achieving a slim and sexy look. Through continuous, carefully planned workouts that take place six days a week, you burn away the fat and tone your physique. In total it’s thirty six workouts, and by the end of them you’ll have a transformed body.
The Slim in 6 package comes with more than just exercise DVD’s, however: it comes complete with an extensive nutrition guide, a guidebook with advice and simple steps to ensuring your success, a motivational calendar and a measuring tape with which to track your progress.
There are many programs to start from, and many of them promise miracles. Slim in 6 promises results, and it does that through a combination of scalable intensity levels, continuous and fun workouts, and the exactly right period of time over which to workout in order to get great results without burning out or getting bored.
Choose The Best Elitemakeup Foundation
Jan 3rd
In this article we’ll be giving you makeup advice on how to choose the foundation best suited to your skin’s needs.
As you know, there is a huge variety of elite makeup foundations on the market. Makeup brands are improving their formulas everyday and offering a bigger choice, which makes our task even more complicated. When choosing a foundation it’s important to know what type of skin you have, since there are specific products for each type of skin. You can find foundations that are fluid, in powder, compact, with matt effect, brightening, oil free, etc. It’s important to moisturize the skin before applying foundation. This will nourish the skin and make the makeup last much longer.
If you’ve got dry skin
A fluid, nourishing and creamy foundation is ideal, especially if you’re looking for a foundation that covers the skin. Compact makeup that turns fluid when you apply it is best for this skin-type. You can also use foundation on a stick or bar. You apply both using a sponge and the degree of coverage will depend on how many layers you apply.
For oily skin
It’s important to choose an oil-free fluid with a matt finish. You can also use colored face powder made up of 80% powder and 20% fluid. This kind covers the skin easily and, while the powder eliminates excess shine, its nutrients moisturize dry areas. Apply these in circular movements using a wide brush.
For mixed skin
I recommend a foundation combining fluid and powder. It moisturizes skin while eliminating shine, due to the powder’s velvety effect.It’s important to keep up to date with the latest releases and know what type of skin they’re suitable for.
Products
Foundations in mousse have an aired creamy texture that’s easy to apply and is appropriate for oily and mixed skin, since it turns to powder when it comes in contact with the skin. Sprays are a good option for skins that do only need a slight coverage. They create a natural finish due to the combination of hot and cold. To use this foundation you need a bit of practice, since it’s easy to get dirty when applying them.Brightening foundations create a radiant effect. Many of them combine fluid with iridiscent pigments, silver and red tones. It gives the skin a unique glow. You can apply them to the whole face or only to specific areas to create a certain light effect.
Those looking exclusively to unify their skin tone and not wanting to look made up as they usually do not use foundation, will find colored moisturizing creams very useful. You can use them on their own or as a pre-foundation to your usual fluid. They will brighten the face and make foundation last much longer. You can also find some foundations which combine color and treatment. They can be moisturizing creams with sunscreen and with a lifting or tensing effect. Most of them are for dry or mixed skin. I hope my elitemakeup advice has been useful and that you can put it into practice when choosing the foundation suitable to your skin type. I’ll see you in the next issue, with more make up tips.
How to Choose The Right Makeup Foundation
Jan 3rd
In this article we’ll be giving you makeup advice on how to choose the foundation best suited to your skin’s needs.
As you know, there is a huge variety of make up foundations on the market. Makeup brands are improving their formulas everyday and offering a bigger choice, which makes our task even more complicated. When choosing a foundation it’s important to know what type of skin you have, since there are specific products for each type of skin. You can find foundations that are fluid, in powder, compact, with matt effect, brightening, oil free, etc.
It’s important to moisturize the skin before applying foundation. This will nourish the skin and make the makeup last much longer.
If you’ve got dry skin
A fluid, nourishing and creamy foundation is ideal, especially if you’re looking for a foundation that covers the skin. Compact makeup that turns fluid when you apply it is best for this skin-type. You can also use foundation on a stick or bar. You apply both using a sponge and the degree of coverage will depend on how many layers you apply.
For oily skin
It’s important to choose an oil-free fluid with a matt finish. You can also use colored face powder made up of 80% powder and 20% fluid. This kind covers the skin easily and, while the powder eliminates excess shine, its nutrients moisturize dry areas. Apply these in circular movements using a wide brush.
For mixed skin
I recommend a foundation combining fluid and powder. It moisturizes skin while eliminating shine, due to the powder’s velvety effect.
It’s important to keep up to date with the latest releases and know what type of skin they’re suitable for.
Products
Foundations in mousse have an aired creamy texture that’s easy to apply and is appropriate for oily and mixed skin, since it turns to powder when it comes in contact with the skin.
Sprays are a good option for skins that do only need a slight coverage. They create a natural finish due to the combination of hot and cold. To use this foundation you need a bit of practice, since it’s easy to get dirty when applying them.
Brightening foundations create a radiant effect. Many of them combine fluid with iridiscent pigments, silver and red tones. It gives the skin a unique glow. You can apply them to the whole face or only to specific areas to create a certain light effect.
Those looking exclusively to unify their skin tone and not wanting to look made up as they usually do not use foundation, will find colored moisturizing creams very useful. You can use them on their own or as a pre-foundation to your usual fluid. They will brighten the face and make foundation last much longer.
You can also find some foundations which combine color and treatment. They can be moisturizing creams with sunscreen and with a lifting or tensing effect. Most of them are for dry or mixed skin.
I hope my makeup advice has been useful and that you can put it into practice when choosing the foundation suitable to your skin type. I’ll see you in the next issue, with more make up tips.
Tips on How to Choose an Alcohol Rehab Center
Jan 3rd
Once the all important decision has been made, a commitment has to be made to getting help; once there is an acknowledgement that there is a problem and that problem needs help to be tackled, then one goes on to the next step; that is choosing an alcohol rehab center. That imperative has been identified, that the alcohol rehab detox intervention is actually required and then you come to the next hurdle; how to choose the right alcohol rehab center.
Choosing the right alcohol rehab center is an important step and choosing wisely and well can actually help sustain the decision for recovery and make the recovery itself more successful.
Inpatient or Outpatient: Be honest when asking the question about the severity of the problem. A more severe problem will require the more intense nature of alcohol rehab offered by an inpatient facility and based on the severity of the problem one needs to make the decision about in or outpatient alcohol rehab.
Price and Location: Both these are primary, practical considerations to consider when making a decision about alcohol rehab. The location has to be convenient and accessible, particularly if you are considering an outpatient facility. This is not such an important consideration if you are considering an inpatient facility which does not require a regular commute.
Also consider if the facility is good value for money by weighing the facilities offered against the price quoted. If it is an inpatient facility you are considering you must check out the level of comfort and actual facilities that the place offers. The level of comfort and indeed luxury are not exactly pertinent to the recovery process but one may have a better chance of concentrating on the process of recovery if one’s physical comforts are looked after. If the facility does not ‘feel right’, it may just be that one may find it an uncomfortable place to be in for any length of time.
Kind of Care offered: What is the philosophy of care that a particular facility offers? Is the emphasis on a religious healing, on group therapy, counseling, what exactly is the accent on? Do you agree with the philosophy of care? What are your beliefs? Do they match with the care offered? Also find out what is the level of one on one care offered by the facility and balance this against the cost of the facility to see what is worthwhile by seeing how many personal sessions with a psychologist are included.
Post Rehab Program: Alcoholic rehab is not just about the program at the alcohol rehab center, it is also about the care that a person receives after the program is over; in other words the follow up. Ideally the rehab center you choose should have a recovery after care program which could prove to be the difference between a successful recovery and a relapse. So find out the kind of aftercare offer and the duration for which it is offered.
