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Overcoming Addictions: When AA, Rehab, Medication and Psychotherapy Fail

Whether you are struggling with addiction or know someone who is, this book will help you to understand how to move forward when all paths seem blocked or pointless. A guide to recovery as well as a beautiful story of triumph and accomplishment, this book brings the warm light of wisdom to the harsh realities of addiction. “From Death Do I Part” is a book you will return to again and again as you reflect on its healing words. AVAILABLE NOW, July 26, 2010 www.fromdeathdoipart.com This is a NON-AA book. Stay tuned, I will be uploading excerpts, links and updates. Foreword for “From Death Do I Part” by Dr. Stanton Peele, an internationally recognized addiction expert. His books include 7 Tools to Beat Addiction and Love and Addiction.
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An interview with Dr. Stanton Peele. Produced and directed by Patrick and Andrea Bergin. Copyright First Vision Productions 2003.
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Home Businesses; Why Do So Many Fail?

Why are businesses in which the owners work from home proliferating at the moment? The answer is simple: in this current economic climate, an increasing number of people are making the decision to start up their own business, or at least use the internet to try to make some extra cash. It is through economic necessity.

However, if you decide to start your own business from home, and want to be successful, there are many details you must consider. The first is that the vast majority fail. Why? Most do so for reasons that can be avoided easily by taking some professional advice. By taking that advice, you can beat the increasing competition and achieve the success that you desire so much.

Before discussing what should be done to ensure your success, here are the main reasons for failure. Can you identify with any of them?

1. A Failure to Plan
The old saying goes that ‘a failure to plan is a plan to fail’. That is definitely true. You must have a business plan, even if you just intend to sell advice on how to train cats.

Now, training cats is not easy, and if you have that knowledge, you could make a decent income. Imagine training a cat to bring the mail to you, do some weeding or even to take the dog for a walk! However, without a business plan you will undoubtedly fail.

Therefore, you have to write down what you want to be earning at the end of your first year, and what is needed to achieve that. What should your pricing be? How many sales do you need? How will you get these sales? What is your advertising budget? And so on . . .

If you start off blindly, hoping that everything will work out fine, it won’t and you will fail. Not having a plan is one of the main reasons for the failure of those that decide to start a home business.

2. Lack of Focus
The second reason for of many home businesses is a lack of focus. If you treat your business as a hobby, you will not succeed. If you think that because you have no boss, you can take time off whenever you feel like it, you will fail. Working from home involves a commitment greater than that.

OK, take the children to the surgery if they are ill, and yes, you can watch that great afternoon movie – but only if you make the time up in the evening. Your plan should have an associated strategy, with targets that you have to meet each month, each week and each day. The benefit of working from home is not taking time off, but being able to work your own hours to meet your targets.

3. Lack of Information and Knowledge
Working from home involves managing and running a business – you no longer have the accountant, the manager, the engineer or the secretaries that you had when working for a company. You are now all of these, and you have to get yourself trained in all of the skills needed to run your own home business. If you are doing well you can afford to employ some of these skills, but until you are in profit, you will have to do it all yourself.

These are three of the main reasons why people who have either lost their jobs due to the recession, or have been forcibly retired when they cannot afford to, fail in their home business.

What about the form your business will take? Can you train cats to take the dog for a walk? Unlikely! Perhaps you are a great cook and have some recipes you can sell, but have you seen the competition for that online? You would find it very difficult to compete against more established people, and the same is true for the vast majority of ideas.

Most people need help, both with their home business idea, and in how to work from home in a disciplined way so that they avoid the above problems. Unless you are lucky enough to be an expert cat trainer, and have a massive world-wide customer base willing to pay you a fortune to avoid taking their dog walkies themselves every evening, you need help and advice. This is available for you online if you can find the right websites.

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Ways That Fail to Attract Women

Sometimes it seems like there are more ways to fail to attract a woman then there are to actually make a woman fall for you. And many times, the advice that is given out on how to attract women will do more harm than good. As a man, you no doubt want to feel like you are able to create that little spark that sets women off. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. A lot of men fail to attract a woman, and there are many reasons for this.

Here are some common ways to fail to attract a woman:

1. Resort to using a cheesy line in a bar. This is that classic mistake and it’s amazing that men still try to use this tactic anymore. And even more amazing are the many “experts” that claim to possess the holy grail of pick up lines. Look, a line is a line and nothing more. And women are more in tune with being able to spot a guy that is trying to use these lines to pick her up. And what to do they do? They shut the guy down and move on somewhere else.

2. Searching out ways to manipulate women. Look, if you have to try to manipulate women to get some action, that says a LOT about what it is wrong with you. Not only is this not going to work out, but you can get in serious trouble for doing this. And, do you REALLY feel like a man by using this kind of approach?

3. Not understanding why and what works to attract women. If you don’t understand what it is that makes a woman fall for one guy and not the next, then the simple solution is to learn. There is a lot of information and real research that has been done in this area and there are a lot of “eye opening” findings that will help you become more successful with women.

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