Question by : Dos every person on probation have to option to serve jail time instead of probation?
I am 18 and got 2 years probation drug and alcohol tests everyday for 30 days then 5 days a week for 60 then 3 for 60 and the 1 for 60 and i also have to go to 90 alcoholics anonomus meetings in 90 days do 50 hours of community service and pay fines up the ass all just for an M.I.P. Frankl;y this is all to expensive and time consuming and honestly i would rather take some quick time in jail and be done with it i have been told that i have the option of doing this please give me an answer and help ya boy out!

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Answer by firewomen
Break probation and you will be serving your original sentence in jail.*

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A couple days ago she got arrested and now she’s facing a year or more in jail (advice from solicitor), and its turned out she lied to my bf and was arrested before (but let go), and is now addicted on heroin again.

He’s told me so many stories about her – apparently she did heroin when she was pregnant with him (his dad is a “junkie” too, but left before he was born). When he was a kid she would leave him days on end to go “do drugs” – he was around 9 fyi. She also traded in their tv and his games for money to fund her drug habit. When he started working after he finished school she apparently a couple times took his bankcard in the middle of the night and stole up to 600 dollars each time and never returned it. Since i’ve met him, once a week without fail she asks him for money (she doesnt work – is on a disability pension because she’s “sick”). I really dont see any sickness in her, she’s fine and can walk around everything, but im not a doctor so i wont judge her for that. So ok, she doesnt work, gets a pension + rent assitance (which totals to about 550/fortnight maybe more), he pays all the bills, the rent (220/week), the food in the house – yet she STILL asks him for money. I dont even know for what!! She lives in squallor!! Her room is tiny, she only stays in there with her “friends”. All i can think of is she spends it on her drug habit which INFURIATES ME!! She just uses him and because he’s soft he always gives into it everytime – he’ll shout at her, but then eventually gives in and gives her money. This is in the field of 200 a week (he payed her 400 for a mobile phone the other week because she was “broke” and she promised to pay him back – she hasnt).

The reason all this angers me (and i know i guess its not my business), is just the fact that this woman her entire life has amounted to nothing. She brings down her son EVERYTIME. I hate listening to all this from him because everytime i try to tell her off to him he defends her and calls me a bitch. I know she is his mum, but how can he not see what she is! We want to move out, eventually buy a house, marry and have kids. I want to travel, and i know he does as well, but every week when we go out he’s telling me he’s struggling for cash. When i ask him to lend me 20 dollars (im a uni student, so im struggling for cash atm), he tells ME off!! It’s so frustrating, i feel like his dysfunctional relationship with his mum is making him distrust me.

She’s going to jail ffs, and he still thinks she has hope. She came home from the court house today and already there were people at the door waiting for drugs saying “your mum called saying to meet her here”. It’s like hello! She’s not going to change, she’s a lost cause.

Am i right to feel like this? Is it right that im angry at her and even him for putting up with her? Is it my business? And should i even stay with him if he’s going to support her? I can’t support a drug addict/dealer. It’s just too much!

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Answer by Olaola
comfort him
its times like these he needs you the most
i didnt read that all..cuz frankly tbh its a bit too much
but i read the title

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Answer by opio-coca
how can a person end up in jail if they are in there own home?

i think you have a biased opinion on it. binge drinking can be fine if a person does it rarely without trying to escape there problems and is doing it socialy.

also as long as they dont drive or leave the house it should be fine too.

also im sure the binge drinker is well aware of the health risks. but it is there decision to do so. to each there own, as long as they dont hurt other people.

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