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Am I making a mistake?

Question by : Am I making a mistake?
My girlfriends’ got a lot of problems at home, including a belligerent alcoholic dad, which makes her want to.. well….. cut

And I was a bigtime junkie when we met, I quit all of it for her, even though it was agonizing

And it really tears me apart when I see that she’s cut again

I told her I’d rather be on heroin again instead of watching her do this to herself

I threatened that if she cut again I’d re-start shooting heroin, I’m quit willing for that sacrifice, and I know it will keep her from cutting, and if she does cut, from doing it anymore

I honestly don’t give a shit about being addicted if it keeps a razor from her wrists (if your wondering, I’m 14 years old, as unbelievable as it is, and if you wonder how I afford the heroin, I don’t, I get it from people who’ll just give it to me)

But, am I making a mistake, will this just make her more sad?

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Ex-Wife Destroying Any Chance of Kids Making New Friends – HELP!?

Question by Jenny: Ex-Wife Destroying Any Chance of Kids Making New Friends – HELP!?
Quick synopsis of our situation:
- Ex-Wife left my hubby for another man.
- This is her second divorce
- Hubby and her share 50/50 custody of their kids
- Kids have just moved to new school where Ex-Wife works as an administrator
- Kids are trying to make new friends but Ex-Wife has been telling any potential friends parents that hubby and I are alcoholic drug addicts that cannot be trusted with other peoples children
- Hubby has the odd beer on weekends, I’m a teetotaler
- Since parents don’t know us, they are listening to Ex-Wife and are not allowing their kids to spend time with the children when they stay with us
WHAT ARE WE TO DO??????

Please, any help will be greatly appreciated!

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Answer by Lorena is ready to Bob-It
If you have proof, contact her human resources manager, or whoever is in charge of her employment.

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“Indie Fever” A PSA about film making addiction.

“Indie Fever” is a humorous tongue in cheek examination of the dangers of film making addiction. This PSA and its companion website (www.indiefever.org) explain the telltale signs of Independent Film Making addiction and the best approach to helping those with “Indie Fever”. This short film featuring Donald W. Fisher as the Announcer with J. Curtis as the Film Addict, was shot on 35mm & 16mm film in and around Nashville, TN. This Mock PSA was written and produced by HL Jarboe while being directed and edited by Scott Simmons. www.bell-jarboefilms.com
Video Rating: 5 / 5

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I’m 17. Kicked out..Mum is making me choose family or my heroin addict boyfriend, Advice asap please..?

Question by Ruby: I’m 17. Kicked out..Mum is making me choose family or my heroin addict boyfriend, Advice asap please..?
Okay so i’m 17 years old, live in the uk if that helps.

Been with my boyfriend for near enough a year now, (we did have a 3 month split though) i lived with him for 5 months until we split, this was due to the fact my mum and my family didn’t like him because he is a heroin addict (don’t judge please). He is on methadone. I thought the world of him, in the end it got to much with the trouble from my family we had to split.

Anyway we got back together and my mum told me i couldn’t see him she would throw me out the house if i did.. anyway i felt so low i actually ended up takng crack and heroin with him (my own choice) my mum now knows about my drug use as i accidently injected and OD. I still smoke it (i am also getting help and getting subutex to get off it)

In the mean time my mum has thrown me out the house, i’ve had to go and move in with my dad (he doesn’t want me there he asked my mum to take me back, she won’t) he is never there always working or out drinking. I feel so alone, my mum is also on about banning me from coming and visiting her unless i get clean and stop seeing my boyfriend. She calls me fat, a druggie, junkie, smackhead ect…!! things like that don’t help me..!! She also says horrible things about my boyfriend too.

I don’t want to be living with my dad, he isn’t there for me, it doesn’t feel like home, and i just feel so alone, Yet when i visit my mum i get arguments and judgement. I can’t win the only place im happy is with my boyfriend. I also have no other family i speak too apart from dad, mum, brother and they all think the same.

Thing is i can get clean and im going too but i can’t leave my boyfriend i do love him and he has more or less stuck by me through everything and my family caused him alot of greif but he still wants to be with me.

My mum is also moving quite a while away very soon so i have no choose if im moving with her and not seeing my boyfriend again or stay here and loose her.

She has said i need to choose between him and her… i can’t, i want my family and my boyfriend.. i can’t choose, help???

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Answer by Josh
Okay…you need to go w/ family here…eventually he will get you addicted just like he is and pull you down w/ him…Family will actually get you somewhere in life!!!! FAMILY!!!!

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Q&A: 17, kicked out.. My mum is making me choose family or my heroin addict boyfriend, advice asap?

Question by Ruby: 17, kicked out.. My mum is making me choose family or my heroin addict boyfriend, advice asap?
Okay so i’m 17 years old, live in the uk if that helps.

Been with my boyfriend for near enough a year now, (we did have a 3 month split though) i lived with him for 5 months until we split, this was due to the fact my mum and my family didn’t like him because he is a heroin addict (don’t judge please). He is on methadone. I thought the world of him, in the end it got to much with the trouble from my family we had to split.

Anyway we got back together and my mum told me i couldn’t see him she would throw me out the house if i did.. anyway i felt so low i actually ended up takng crack and heroin with him (my own choice) my mum now knows about my drug use as i accidently injected and OD. I still smoke it (i am also getting help and getting subutex to get off it)

In the mean time my mum has thrown me out the house, i’ve had to go and move in with my dad (he doesn’t want me there he asked my mum to take me back, she won’t) he is never there always working or out drinking. I feel so alone, my mum is also on about banning me from coming and visiting her unless i get clean and stop seeing my boyfriend. She calls me fat, a druggie, junkie, smackhead ect…!! things like that don’t help me..!! She also says horrible things about my boyfriend too.

I don’t want to be living with my dad, he isn’t there for me, it doesn’t feel like home, and i just feel so alone, Yet when i visit my mum i get arguments and judgement. I can’t win the only place im happy is with my boyfriend. I also have no other family i speak too apart from dad, mum, brother and they all think the same.

Thing is i can get clean and im going too but i can’t leave my boyfriend i do love him and he has more or less stuck by me through everything and my family caused him alot of greif but he still wants to be with me.

My mum is also moving quite a while away very soon so i have no choose if im moving with her and not seeing my boyfriend again or stay here and loose her.

She has said i need to choose between him and her… i can’t, i want my family and my boyfriend.. i can’t choose, help???

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Answer by ~♥ beautiful nightmare ♥~
choose ur family …blood is thicker than water….n relationships dont last……if u pick him over them ull regret it :/

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17..Kicked out..!! Mum is making me choose between family and my heroin addict boyfriend, Advice asap please?

Question by Ruby: 17..Kicked out..!! Mum is making me choose between family and my heroin addict boyfriend, Advice asap please?
Okay so i’m 17 years old, live in the uk if that helps.

Been with my boyfriend for near enough a year now, (we did have a 3 month split though) i lived with him for 5 months until we split, this was due to the fact my mum and my family didn’t like him because he is a heroin addict (don’t judge please). He is on methadone. I thought the world of him, in the end it got to much with the trouble from my family we had to split.

Anyway we got back together and my mum told me i couldn’t see him she would throw me out the house if i did.. anyway i felt so low i actually ended up takng crack and heroin with him (my own choice) my mum now knows about my drug use as i accidently injected and OD. I still smoke it (i am also getting help and getting subutex to get off it)

In the mean time my mum has thrown me out the house, i’ve had to go and move in with my dad (he doesn’t want me there he asked my mum to take me back, she won’t) he is never there always working or out drinking. I feel so alone, my mum is also on about banning me from coming and visiting her unless i get clean and stop seeing my boyfriend. She calls me fat, a druggie, junkie, smackhead ect…!! things like that don’t help me..!! She also says horrible things about my boyfriend too.

I don’t want to be living with my dad, he isn’t there for me, it doesn’t feel like home, and i just feel so alone, Yet when i visit my mum i get arguments and judgement. I can’t win the only place im happy is with my boyfriend. I also have no other family i speak too apart from dad, mum, brother and they all think the same.

Thing is i can get clean and im going too but i can’t leave my boyfriend i do love him and he has more or less stuck by me through everything and my family caused him alot of greif but he still wants to be with me.

My mum is also moving quite a while away very soon so i have no choose if im moving with her and not seeing my boyfriend again or stay here and loose her.

She has said i need to choose between him and her… i can’t, i want my family and my boyfriend.. i can’t choose, help???

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Answer by Harmony
Don’t be stupid.
You’re going to have to choose your family.

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Is he just making excusses?

Question by Sasa T: Is he just making excusses?
Hi, I only met this guy recently and the chemistry was just insane when we met. We couldn’t keep hands of eachother. It all went really quick and he was sure he wants to be with me (or he is saying that), he hasn’t got a problem telling me how much he likes me and how much he wants to be with me…..but then when it comes to showing it there is a little problem, he has got this friend or more friends and he is trying to please them all the time. He won’t even txt me to not upset his friend. And today he forgot to let me know its his friends bday so he didnt come to see me. He was appologizing and expecting me to forgive and forget and move on sraight away.
few das ago he was with this same friend and they wer into some disscusion and as he checked the phone to txt me, that friend went off at him saying that e is rude and not listening….so he didnt txt.
This is all very weird to me but what can I do? Do I talk to him or just let go?
He is aware of his selfish moves and behaviours, but I started seeing that maybe he doesnt want to change that.
I really don’t know what to do.
The other problem is alcohol, he stoped drinking, he knows he is alcoholic, but the behaviour is something that is hurting me a lot. Is he making his “alcoholism” excusse for his behaviours or can people like that actually love someone???
Is he just not into me, or is he really struggling with making priorities in his life?
Thank you all so much for you answers.
Much Much apreciated!!!!!
Love
Wow, To all a huge thanks for your answers! Very helpfull.
=)

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Answer by k-la
Well if he likes you, then he would explain that to his friend. I would talk to him about it, and if nothing comes from it, let him go.

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Making Money Online is as Easy As

Making money online is as easy as getting up at 6am, taking a shower, getting dressed up in office clothes, driving to work, sitting in the office all day, driving home, changing back into comfy clothes, making dinner for your family, going to sleep and starting over again the next day.

That’s how easy it is to make money online. If you do everything listed above on a regular basis, you can make money online. There is no “set it and forget it” method to making money online when you are first starting out so stop looking for the magic bullet.

You have to make a plan and you have to work at it. If you think that you are just going to quit your job and then jump on the computer for an hour a day and make the same amount of money, you’re an idiot. Period.

You spend at least 10 hours out of every day either preparing for work, driving to work or actually being at work so why not spend 10 hours per day, working online? It’s really that simple. If you get your hands on a good teaching program, quit your job and spend 10 hours a day working for yourself, you will make money.

It’s not rocket science so if you have the IQ of a peanut, don’t worry, it will work for you too. There is nothing that a peanut like you can’t do. Life is about working hard at what you want so that you can enjoy what you wanted and start to want something else. That doesn’t sound too hard, does it?

Make it happen. Work at it. When life hands you lemons, cut those bad boys open and make some lemonade. Be patient though, don’t just grab the lemons and start squeezing with all of your might or you are going to get lemon juice in your eye. And that hurts.

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Heal My broken Heart – Making Courageous Decisions

Sometimes life requires you to make courageous decisions about what direction you are going in and were it is leading you. Of course the most difficult decision is to let go of someone you love. It is such a momentous decision that you can agonise over it for months and even years despite the fact that your partner may have already moved on.

The pain that this indecision carries with it is excruciating, debilitating and can destroy your very soul. Yet you refuse to make the decision to accept that your relationship is over. You don’t make the decision because the fear of losing your love and the future plans you made is stronger than the pain that you are experiencing. At some point the balance of that equation will change and you will let go; that’s the point where you will start to heal your broken heart.

So what is it that happens to swing the balance? As time passes you start getting used to your partner not being around and slowly you start to form new daily habits. You build new friendships or rekindle old ones; you get used to being single and actually start to enjoy the freedom of it. Most importantly you start to replace your old plans for your future with new ones.

People often want to know how long it is going to take to get over a break up and of course there is no definitive answer but the previous paragraph contains a huge clue. Your heartache will last as long as it takes you to replace your daily habits and your future plans. Once you adapt to your new reality your sub conscious mind will sense that all is well in your world and it will stop producing the negative emotional states which cause so much pain.

There are many simple psychological techniques you can learn that will speed up the process. By using these techniques in your day to day life you effectively tell your brain that you are back in control and it responds accordingly.

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African Safaris FAQ’s: Making an Ideal Holiday in Africa

How much time do I have available for my African safari?
You should allow a minimum of about two weeks. Also, take into consideration (especially if you are traveling from the West Coast) that you need to allow two travel days to get to Africa and at least one day for the return. For the game viewing part of your safari (excluding travel time to the safari regions), a minimum of 5-7 nights in preferably two different wildlife regions is ideal.
For example, if you choose Botswana, it’s better to include at least one camp in the Okavango Delta (preferably two to allow you to experience the Moremi Game Reserve) and as time permits, a camp/lodge in Chobe National Park, a great contrast and an excellent stepping stone for Victoria Falls. For an East African safari, like Tanzania, either a driving or fly-in safari is suggested. And, for this, you should allow a minimum of 8 nights. If you would like to combine the Maasai Mara in Kenya, another 4 nights is the minimum we recommend.

When should I travel?

Many people want to know the “best time to visit Africa.” This largely depends on whether your main focus is game viewing and, if so, high season is generally June through October. High season is also the dry season in both East and Southern Africa. In Southern Africa, December-March is commonly referred to as the “Green Season,” which is also the rainy season in the game viewing regions; however, this period offers benefits such as herbivores have their babies and lush green landscapes and dramatic skies make for superb photography.

In general, temperatures are similar between the East and Southern African regions with May-August being the cooler winter months. East Africa has a long rainy season (April-May) and a short rainy season (November). Again, the holiday season (mid-December – mid-January) is “Peak Season” in East Africa as well as in Cape Town, South Africa, being the dry summer season. East Africa is renowned for its wide open plains and huge herds, especially during the migration of wildebeest and zebra, commonly referred to at the Wildebeest or Annual Migration between the Maasai Mara in the north and the Serengeti in the south. It is a spectacle not to be missed. It is difficult to predict the migration but in general you have a good chance to witness it between the months June-August.

Should I select a Group Safari or a Tailor-made Safari?

Group Safaris: These are set up in advance by the operator. Touring arrangements and lodges/camps are already selected and number of days at each property as well as set departure tour dates. Some group tours have an escort and some are locally hosted. For group safaris in particular, we suggest you plan your safari well in advance. Since safari properties are relatively small, space is limited and therefore fills quickly. When travelers book less than 90 days prior to traveling, group space has often either filled or has been released. Note: If you find a group safari itinerary that suits you and it turns out to be full during your time frame, then we can build a comparable tailor-made safari for you to suit your travel dates and interests while accommodating you at excellent lodges

Am I planning a Africa safari with family and/or friends or as a solo traveler?

A safari is a special experience to be shared with family members or with a group of friends. The group safari departures range in participant size from a minimum of 2 up to 24. Or, we can arrange a tailor-made safari for your special group or occasion (family reunion, birthday, honeymoons, anniversary celebrations, etc). If you are traveling solo, you may choose to join a scheduled group safari or even a previously privately arranged tailor-made journey, which translates to shared game drives and meals at safari lodges and camps.

Africa Luxury Safaris: These adventures highlight the best wildlife viewing areas in the predator rich regions visited in specially designed 4 x 4 game viewing vehicles. These small group departures are joined by excellent rangers.

Walking Safaris: Experience the excitement of a small group safari on-foot in the company of experienced trackers and guides who are trained to ensure memorable wildlife encounters as well as safety.

Sights & Safaris: These signature itineraries combine the excitement wildlife safaris with the best sights and experiences in the region; from amazing cities to wine tasting, from awe-inspiring scenery to train journeys.

Mobile Tented Safaris: Luxurious tented, seasonal camps move around bringing guests within range of impressive wildlife.

Family Safaris: Designed specifically with families in mind, these itineraries capture a safari experience that will appeal to children, parents, and grandparents alike.
Fly-in Safaris: Experience the beautiful expanse of the African savannahs with these exciting fly-in journeys. Utilizing flights between safari camps to maximize game viewing time.

Do I have any special interests, such as photography or adventure?

The Africa experts c an assist you select a safari to match your special interests, be it photography, birding, open-vehicle game drives, mokoro (canoe) and boating trips, or adventure activities such as Great White shark cage diving off the coast of South Africa, bungee jumping at Victoria Falls, or a hike up the world-renowned Table Mountain.

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