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Long history of mental health affecting relationship with boyfriend. NEED ADVICE!?
Jan 25th
Question by : Long history of mental health affecting relationship with boyfriend. NEED ADVICE!?
I am debating on whether or not I should end things with my boyfriend. He and I have been dating for a year, and honestly, I really do love him. But from the very beginning, things have started off on the wrong foot for us and they have only gotten worse as time has gone on.
I suffer from Major Depression, Borderline Personality Disorder, and Bi-Polar Disorder. I am a “cutter” and I have had a few suicide attempts in the past. This is a day to day struggle of mine. I have had a very rough childhood, and now as a 22 year old adult, things seem to just be getting even harder.
From day one, my boyfriend knew about all of my “mental health” issues. He claimed that he could deal with them and that he wanted to “be there” for me and help me “get better.” But over the course of the past year, he has honestly only made things worse.
He is an alcoholic. He comes from a very different “family-type” then I do. His family grew up doing drugs and dropping out of high school. While, even though my mom died when I was 14….I still tried to progress positively and maintain the proper course that she would have wanted for my life.
But he flat out told me when I met him that he, along with all 6 of his brothers have never finished high school. And they all have done drugs at some point in their lives. And of course I thought to myself…Is this really the kind of person I want to be dating? But I tried not to judge him and accepted him past for what it was and hoped that he would be willing to make a new life with me.
Well, now…a year later. He and I really are in love. I swear it. But the problem is that I am still so depressed. And I’m sitting back thinking…ok…now what? Neither of us have jobs. (He worked at a fast food restaurant for 9 months…just recently quit) And I cannot find a job to save my life.
So our life together is very boring. And it takes a toll on me a lot quicker then it does him. My mind doesn’t work the same way his does…so when I have to sit at home and cry about the fact that I am a loser and I have a loser boyfriend and all we do is sit around and waste our lives…it doesn’t take me very long to come to the conclusion that I am a piece of sh!t and I should just kill myself.
But I never do it. I usually just force myself to go to sleep for a day or two. And then wake up and repeat the process all over again.
So I guess my question is…
What should I do?
I don’t want to get rid of the boyfriend…I really do love him.
But I feel like he’s taking me no where in life.
Then again…I’m taking myself no where.
HELP.
Best answer:
Answer by Liam
just pull urself together i just think he’s in it for the sex though maybe not
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Q&A: Drug problems…I NEED HELP!?
Jan 14th
Question by Sophia M: Drug problems…I NEED HELP!?
Damm..I can’t believe im posting this up, but I need someone’s help..I’m 19 and I was born addicted to heroin. (my mom used heroin all her pregnancy) but i got off the morphine doses when i was 2 or 3years old. The thing is I’ve been around drugs all my life…I started using weeed, then coke, and now meth. Wow that sounds really nasty… but i do it because I wanted to lose weight…but then i see my body losing shape…so i eat to gain back.. I tell myself it’s not a problem i can stop any time, but honestly t I really can’t.. I see it and I crave it..it’s around me 24/7…I really need help…what can I do? I don’t want to be known as a tweaker… or a junkie…or anything of that sort. HELP PLEASE!
I keep telling myself is not a problem…I used to go to church, but it’s so hard to even keep up with that..I’m young..I like to go out and hang out with my friends…it’s just stupid choices that i make…and trust me i dont even look like i would ever use drugs i hide it well…hit me up http://myspace.com/sophia_lamorena
Thanks everyone!
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Answer by crystal a
hey gurl well iknow it is tough but dam u need to stop i know it is hard but it will help u if u do u should try to get urself in activities to get out of the house such has aerobics something and get closer to god
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i’m doing a project on alcoholism in college and i need help finding info ?
Jan 4th
Question by element9823: i’m doing a project on alcoholism in college and i need help finding info ?
the project mainly deals with the costs of alcohol to students, its effects on their academics, how they effect the college as a result of their actions etc. but i cant find any solid info beside just some statistics, any help would be greatly appreciated (also if anyone has anything else i could talk about pertaining to this subject that would be appreciated to)
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Answer by xo379
There are a bunch of good articles here: http://alcoholism.about.com/od/college/College_Binge_Drinking_Issues.htm
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i need help from someone who knows about alcoholism?
Nov 28th
Question by Jason: i need help from someone who knows about alcoholism?
My real dad died from alcohol posioning and was an alcoholic ive never met him before this is just wat ive been told im 18 and ive been drinking a lot this past couple of months ive noticed i can handle my alcohol very well and i no im not an alcoholic but lately ive been getting the urge to drink everyday i dont but i want to drink a lot now what does that mean?
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Answer by Tabbie Anne
it means you like to drink and that means you have a problem and need help to control the drinking every day. now if it was a few beers every once in a blue moon then there is no problem. but wanting to drink every day is a problem. you may not see it now but it is a problem that needs help. drinking doesn’t solve anything. so why do you drink.
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I need a good website on denial to alcoholism/drug addiction?
Nov 17th
Question by stephy09: I need a good website on denial to alcoholism/drug addiction?
Im writing an essay.. i cant find any great websites that tell abou it.. thanks for the help!
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Answer by bmac
Here are a few:
http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/info2/a/aa050797.htm
http://www.drug-addiction.com/drugs_and_denial.htm
http://www.egetgoing.com/Drug/5_7_1.asp
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Does anyone in Greensboro or Winston-Salem, NC area need help with addiction or alcoholism?
Nov 15th
Question by John K: Does anyone in Greensboro or Winston-Salem, NC area need help with addiction or alcoholism?
BROTHERS KEEPERS is a Triad-area support group (we meet in Kernersville) that uses a Bible-based program in a confidential support-group format to help you overcome your addictions: alcohol, drugs, pornography, smoking, whatever. There is no cost. To join one of our weekly groups, reply to this question, or call Rich at 336-577-9479
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Answer by TELL ME!
I have a friend in Winston-Salem and that is EXACTLY what he is looking for…WOW, I just had this talk with him 2 days ago on the phone. I will pass this number on to him ASAP…..his name is James Riley.
Thanks so much
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Can anyone help me? I need to know specific examples of alcoholism in A Death in the Family by James Agee!?
Nov 14th
Question by Naomi316: Can anyone help me? I need to know specific examples of alcoholism in A Death in the Family by James Agee!?
I would be very greatful. Thank you to those who answer.
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Answer by Kevin
Not sure these will help but you never know.
These links will give you a summary of the book, character analysis, plot and much more, so that you will be able to answer literary questions.
For the Great Works of World Literature.
( Book Summaries & Study Guides)
http://www.schoolbytes.com/list-p.php
http://www.jiffynotes.com/
http://www.awerty.addr.com/summaries.html
http://education.yahoo.com/homework_help/cliffsnotes/all.html
http://www.gradesaver.com/
http://summarycentral.tripod.com/
http://www.bookwolf.com/
http://www.cliffsnotes.com/
http://sparknotes.com/
http://www.bookreporter.com/reviews/index.asp
http://www.shvoong.com/
http://www.reviewsofbooks.com
http://thebestnotes.com/
http://www.monkeynotes.com/
http://www.pinkmonkey.com/
http://barronsbooknotes.com/
http://www.studyworld.com/
http://aesop.thefreelibrary.com/
http://www.allreaders.com/
http://www.novelguide.com/
http://www.hoboes.com/Mimsy/?CAT=reviews
http://www.bartleby.com/
http://www.homework-online.com/litguides.asp
http://absoluteshakespeare.com/index.htm
http://sprg.ssl.berkeley.edu/~jmcd/book/
http://www.4literature.net/
http://www.online-literature.com/
http://www.online-literature.com/author_index.php
Literature reviews
http://everything2.com/index.pl
English literature
http://everything2.com/index.pl?node_id=57905&lastnode_id=124
Good luck.
Kevin, Liverpool, England.
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Q&A: I need a little insight on my binge drinking?
Nov 5th
Question by Sdfsdq: I need a little insight on my binge drinking?
Basically I have insomnia and i used to binge drink till i would pass out just to get some sleep. I was able to stop doing that, but the other night i did it again. Im afraid that its going to happen again. Does anyone have any suggestions or any insight as to what i could do? stop drinking:(? moderation? idk
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Answer by Fabio Marciano
instead of drinking till you pass out, you could get someone to punch you in the face and knock you out. i guess it would be better on your liver…
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Do you need a degree to be a drug addiction counselor?
Oct 20th
Question by optimistic jeskka;: Do you need a degree to be a drug addiction counselor?
… I’m a former adolescent drug addict, and I was just wondering if I can work at a rehab on basis of my experience and insight.
Best answer:
Answer by indian307
experience helps…….a lot,,,,,,coz you have been through it all
i cant see any problem you getting a job……
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Q&A: Do you think we can eventually work it out? Its not long. please need help!?
Oct 13th
Question by HONEY: Do you think we can eventually work it out? Its not long. please need help!?
We just broke up after 2.5 yrs a month ago and im a mess.. the begining was very rough, he always thought i was up to something or cheating on him. It took a toll on me. Him being so insecure but i was determined to make it work. I had to get serious and break up with him bc i couldnt take it anymore, we got back together a week later and got thru it! Fast foward 2 years..
I just turned 25.. so ive been getting the itch to move foward, i pressured him and STESSEd him out and was MEAN, so mean to him bc he wasnt getting hhis stuff together quick enough for me. I wanted to move in and he wasnt ready and i pressured him sooo much, for a minute there i forgot about the love 
and broke up with him. When i SHOULD of stood by him, and told him positive things instead of negative things. Hes been thru enough in his life and didnt need me, the one he loves so much, bringing him down.. Ive tried to get him back but he wont. He said he loves me so much but needs to work on himself and be by himself, and find himself and love himself bc for a really long time he hasnt done that. Just 3 months before he got together with me him and his Ex broke up, it was nasty, she cheated on him, and it was a bad break up.
Hes 22
He doesnt have much self worth.
Hes insecure
Not confident.
Grew up with both alcoholic parents
Hes very humble and a great guy.
I need to give him his space and time dont i? Ugh this sucks. Well i just want some advice, and things to do to help him so if we do get back together. I can be everything he needs me to be. I love him soo much
Someone mentioned going to do community service and help people so he can see others with tough lives also, and even tougher.
Also mentioned him playing on a sports team. He does that and absolutely LOVES it. It makes him sooo happy.
I love him to death. Please, need advice.
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Answer by adizille81
no
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