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Should I have my neice taken away from her mother?

Question by Sammy: Should I have my neice taken away from her mother?
Long story but, essentially, my sister in law has been using drugs (hard core stuff) for many years. Six years ago, she got pregnant by a fellow junkie-she used heroin during pregnancy. When social services got involved, the mom tried to have the child placed with mom’s mom (child’s grandmother) who drinks and smokes pot. We let social services know and as a result the child was placed in foster care. The mom got angry at us (duh, you’re the one that used!) for letting them know. She eventually got the child back and when the child was about 18 months old, mom got back with the child’s father. He beat her in front of the child, prostituted in front of the child (they were living in a motel), and drugged. An aunt offered to allow mom and child to stay with them. A year later, mom was found using. The aunt kicked mom out but kept the child, allowing the child to have visits. The aunt suspects mom has been using throughout the time, high during the visits. Last week, mom was invovled in a hit and run then overdosed. Mom was hospitalized but is now out of the hospital. Anyhow, I believe the aunt should keep her away from the mother (who is not very nice to her daughter) as her mother poses a physical and emotional risk to the child. Who would put a kid in a car with an intoxicated individual? I believe the trauma of being away from her mom is only one trauma compared to all teh trauma’s she’s going to endure by having the mother involved. What do you think and why?

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Answer by ppartridge
You should get a lawyer and/or child services involved, but, honestly, the biological mom blew her chances already. Right now, as you said, she is a danger to her daughter physically and emotionally. Your niece is probably too young to fully understand what’s going on, but she definitely knows something’s wrong. If an aunt is watching over the child, then child services should (hopefully) allow her to stay in that aunt’s care. But with the child’s mother being the way you described, i think the mother shouldn’t be allowed to have even visits allowed until she has proven she has cleaned herself up.

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Q&A: Will my 17mos. old neice be taken away from my sister if she seeks drug addiction treatment?

Question by momof4: Will my 17mos. old neice be taken away from my sister if she seeks drug addiction treatment?
My sister is recently separated from her husband. She and my 16mos. old niece live with my parents, who are supporting her in every way. We are concerned with my sisters serious drug addiction to pain killers, started after the birth of my niece. My sister has a fear if she seeks treatment, the baby will be taken away from her. Is this true? How could that be? If she seeks out treatment, and the 72 hours she is in detox, her family will be taking care of the baby.

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Answer by Blether T
The child wont be taken away. She will be asking for help and she lives with parents everything will be fine if she gets the help she needs.
Good luck

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why would a woman who has been abused, then treat her kids so badly, they are taken away?

Question by griggs_jake: why would a woman who has been abused, then treat her kids so badly, they are taken away?
some people are so two faced, a woman on here pretends to be the perfect mother who was abused, but she is a phsyco junkie heroin abuser and wonders why she has lost her kids?and she’s answering your questions! mmmmmm

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Answer by Peta
Who are you to judge her? Are you perfect?

And why should I trust your opinion, do you have any proof?

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Points to be Taken Care off While Buying Prescription ED Pills Online

Under What Circumstances Could Buying Viagra Online be Harmful?

It is essential that you verify a site’s licensed credentials thoroughly before you buy Viagra online for impotence treatment. Buying Viagra online from an unlicensed site may be harmful.

Many websites offer Viagra without a prescription. The availability of Viagra from online pharmacies without the need for any formal diagnosis is alarming. Self-diagnosis places the purchaser at risk of drug interactions, incorrect dosage, allergic reactions and other threats depending on their own personal health and tolerance.

Prescription medications manufactured in the US are governed by very strict pharmaceutical guidelines. However, the same rules do not apply to other countries. If Viagra is processed illegally, there are no guarantees that the product you are purchasing is the “real thing” and it could be made with unknown ingredients that could cause you harm.

What are the limitations of Viagra?

Erectile dysfunction is most commonly found in older men (thought not always). Most cases of impotence in this group have a physical basis. Viagra is prescribed to these men so that they can have sufficient erections for peak sexual performance. However, Viagra also has its limitations and may not be effective in all cases. It is important for you to understand that:

  • It is not an aphrodisiac – it cannot cause a person to become aroused when the person is not interested or when the sexual stimulation is missing
  • It is not a performance-enhancing drug
  • It will not give faster or harder erections in healthy people who do not suffer with erectile problems
  • In fact, in healthy men Viagra use can result in a painful, long-lasting erection (priapism), which itself could lead to an erectile dysfunction
  • It does not have the ability to raise low testosterone levels
  • It cannot increase your sexual appetite or make you ejaculate if you have problems reaching orgasm
  • It will in not correct hormonal abnormalities

Is it fair to use Viagra as recreational drug?

Viagra is not a thrill pill. Taking Viagra recreationally will not turn a healthy guy into a sexual superman – it exists to treat erectile dysfunction only.

Using Viagra as a recreational drug can have potentially serious side-effects, especially if it clashes with a medication you are already taking. In addition, a painful side-effect like priapism (a painful erection that won’t go away on its own) can even injure you permanently. It is a prescription drug for a reason. Only a doctor is qualified to approve its use.

There is an added threat of young people taking Viagra recreationally. If you take Viagra at a young age, the body can become addicted to it, and you will not be able to achieve an erection without it. Ironically you would effectively be giving yourself an erectile dysfunction!

Moreover, Viagra usage in healthy men can also lead to impotence and infertility as research suggests that when used by men without erectile dysfunction, Viagra can damage male sperm.

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How Suicide Cleanup is Taken Up

Suicide cleanup is a part of the broad based service of Crime Scene Cleanup which involves crime and trauma decontamination and restoring it to its previous state. It is a a niche market in the cleaning industry and involves cleaning the biologically contaminated scene of one violent death like suicide, homicide or accidental death, or even the chemically contaminated anthrax exposed site or scene of a methamphetamine lab. Broadly speaking, crime scene cleanup and suicide cleanup is almost same but there are few exeptions to this rule. Suicide cleanup requires some extra physical effort and psychological sensitivity that the technicians should be able to handle. Following are some examples illustrating this.

A suicide generally involves close range of weapon to body and so in-depth decontamination and thorough cleaning is required. The cleaners also have to handle family members who might be present at the scene searching for answers that why their beloved person decided to end his/her life. The technicians need to remove all traces of any evidence of a suicide so that no remains are present for family members and friends that might remind them of the tragedy.

Restoring of a suicide scene also means clean and restore sentimental items that mean the lot to the family of the deceased and requires additional time and effort. On a visual inspection of any suicide scene you will generally find a lot of blood and bodily fluids, but invisible to the eye, a great amount of biohazard contamination is also bound to be there. The suicide cleanup technicians have to search thoroughly in all areas, even those that can not be seen or accessed easily and remove all traces of them from the scene.

Most suicide cleanup services have their staff trained in not only dealing up with decontaminating and cleaning up issues but also about dealing with family and friends with sensitivity and compassion. Since most of such companies work in association with leading insurance companies so they can even help you to bill the insurance company directly thus saving you all the hassles.

A suicide cleanup consists of the following steps. Firstly the scene should be evaluated. Next all contaminates should be located and decontaminated. A thorough search should me made again to decontaminate any traces of contaminates that might have been left out. All types of bio hazardous agents should be properly disposed of. Any microscopic remains should b treated with chemicals and the environment should be treated for odors. Last but not the least all tools and equipments should be disinfected. But before you attempt to clean a suicide scene on your own it is always better to consult a trained professional first.

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