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Question by Hollie: Everything has changed with them since i married! HELP!?
I am a newlywed and got married to my husband whom i was dating for 3 years. We decided to elope as my family & friends didn’t agree with me getting married to a rich Portuguese man of my dreams. He treats me like i am the only person in the world that matters & to him nothing is ever good enough for me and i love him so much, i can not imagine my life without him. He wants me to move to Portugal as he is working there at the moment and he normally travels for work so he wants me with him permanently. I hate when i am not with him, i am totally head over heals with him. My best friend was always there for me and i was there for him when he was battling coming clean from heroin. We grew up together and as my mom is a junkie & my dad is in prison and i am an only child, he was the only real family i had as well as my close friends. They hated the fact that i was going to move away and get married, everyone of them had a opinion about it and it is driving me crazy. When i said i got married they where all in shock and then said they couldn’t believe i got married without them being there.It feels like they can do what they like but i cant & i was always there for them. I feel like i have drifted away from my best friends but i cant stand anyone who talks crap about the man i love. How do i deal with this, i don’t want to leave things on bad terms when i go.
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Answer by Deidre’
It is easy to view reality when one is not emotionally involved.
Chances are you will not understand this.

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Question by Hollie: Everything has changed with them since i married!! HELP!?
I am a newlywed and got married to my husband whom i was dating for 3 years. We decided to elope as my family & friends didn’t agree with me getting married to a rich Portuguese man of my dreams. He treats me like i am the only person in the world that matters & to him nothing is ever good enough for me and i love him so much, i can not imagine my life without him. He wants me to move to Portugal as he is working there at the moment and he normally travels for work so he wants me with him permanently. I hate when i am not with him, i am totally head over heals with him. My best friend was always there for me and i was there for him when he was battling coming clean from heroin. We grew up together and as my mom is a junkie & my dad is in prison and i am an only child, he was the only real family i had as well as my close friends. They hated the fact that i was going to move away and get married, everyone of them had a opinion about it and it is driving me crazy. When i said i got married they where all in shock and then said they couldn’t believe i got married without them being there.It feels like they can do what they like but i cant & i was always there for them. I feel like i have drifted away from my best friends but i cant stand anyone who talks crap about the man i love. How do i deal with this, i don’t want to leave things on bad terms when i go.
Thanks

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Answer by Happy-2
Well, why didn’t you invite your best friend to your wedding? Yeah, I don’t blame him for being angry at you. You should apologize to him for not inviting him – that would be a start.

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Question by Sandra: Everything has changed with them since i married! HELP!?
I am a newlywed and got married to my husband whom i was dating for 3 years. We decided to elope as my family & friends didn’t agree with me getting married to a rich Portuguese man of my dreams. He treats me like i am the only person in the world that matters & to him nothing is ever good enough for me and i love him so much, i can not imagine my life without him. He wants me to move to Portugal as he is working there at the moment and he normally travels for work so he wants me with him permanently. I hate when i am not with him, i am totally head over heals with him. My best friend was always there for me and i was there for him when he was battling coming clean from heroin. We grew up together and as my mom is a junkie & my dad is in prison and i am an only child, he was the only real family i had as well as my close friends. They hated the fact that i was going to move away and get married, everyone of them had a opinion about it and it is driving me crazy. When i said i got married they where all in shock and then said they couldn’t believe i got married without them being there.It feels like they can do what they like but i cant & i was always there for them. I feel like i have drifted away from my best friends but i cant stand anyone who talks crap about the man i love, he is my everything. How do i deal with this, i don’t want to leave things on bad terms when i go.

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Answer by Soon to be Mrs. M
Wow. Did you have to include “rich Portuguese man of my dreams”?
Anyway, you aren’t married to them. Tell them that you would love to remain friends and close, but you aren’t going to bend over backwards because you are an adult and you didn’t have to tell anyone you got married.

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Question by Sandra: Everything has changed with them since i married! HELP!?
I am a newlywed and got married to my husband whom i was dating for 3 years. We decided to elope as my family & friends didn’t agree with me getting married to a rich Portuguese man of my dreams & didnt want to really help me at all, whicle my husband was away. He treats me like i am the only person in the world that matters & to him nothing is ever good enough for me and i love him so much, i can not imagine my life without him. He wants me to move to Portugal as he is working there at the moment and he normally travels for work so he wants me with him permanently. I hate when i am not with him, i am totally head over heals with him. My best friend was always there for me and i was there for him when he was battling coming clean from heroin. We grew up together and as my mom is a junkie & my dad is in prison and i am an only child, he was the only real family i had as well as my close friends. They hated the fact that i was going to move away and get married, everyone of them had a opinion about it and it is driving me crazy. When i said i got married they where all in shock and then said they couldn’t believe i got married without them being there.It feels like they can do what they like but i cant & i was always there for them. I feel like i have drifted away from my best friends but i cant stand anyone who talks crap about the man i love, he is my everything. How do i deal with this, i don’t want to leave things on bad terms when i go.
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Answer by Dee
If they were your real friends they would be happy that you have met such a good man it sounds like they are jealous that you have ended up so happy

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Question by Sandra: Everything has changed with them since i married! HELP!?
I am a newlywed and got married to my husband whom i was dating for 3 years. We decided to elope as my family & friends didn’t agree with me getting married to a rich Portuguese man of my dreams. He treats me like i am the only person in the world that matters & to him nothing is ever good enough for me and i love him so much, i can not imagine my life without him. He wants me to move to Portugal as he is working there at the moment and he normally travels for work so he wants me with him permanently. I hate when i am not with him, i am totally head over heals with him. My best friend was always there for me and i was there for him when he was battling coming clean from heroin. We grew up together and as my mom is a junkie & my dad is in prison and i am an only child, he was the only real family i had as well as my close friends. They hated the fact that i was going to move away and get married, everyone of them had a opinion about it and it is driving me crazy. When i said i got married they where all in shock and then said they couldn’t believe i got married without them being there.It feels like they can do what they like but i cant & i was always there for them. I feel like i have drifted away from my best friends but i cant stand anyone who talks crap about the man i love, he is my everything. How do i deal with this, i don’t want to leave things on bad terms when i go.

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Answer by Suba
Move to Portugal and write your friends long letters telling them how you feel. It’s your life and you’ve got to do what’s best for you and if they can’t accept that you’re sorry they feel that way and if they ever change their minds they can contact you.

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Question by Sandra: Everything has changed with them since i married! HELP!?
I am a newlywed and got married to my husband whom i was dating for 3 years. We decided to elope as my family & friends didn’t agree with me getting married to a rich Portuguese man of my dreams & didnt want to really help me at all, whicle my husband was away. He treats me like i am the only person in the world that matters & to him nothing is ever good enough for me and i love him so much, i can not imagine my life without him. He wants me to move to Portugal as he is working there at the moment and he normally travels for work so he wants me with him permanently. I hate when i am not with him, i am totally head over heals with him. My best friend was always there for me and i was there for him when he was battling coming clean from heroin. We grew up together and as my mom is a junkie & my dad is in prison and i am an only child, he was the only real family i had as well as my close friends. They hated the fact that i was going to move away and get married, everyone of them had a opinion about it and it is driving me crazy. When i said i got married they where all in shock and then said they couldn’t believe i got married without them being there.It feels like they can do what they like but i cant & i was always there for them. I feel like i have drifted away from my best friends but i cant stand anyone who talks crap about the man i love, he is my everything. How do i deal with this, i don’t want to leave things on bad terms when i go.
Thanks

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Answer by Douglas B
You can’t change their minds. But if you have so many people who were against it, I would guess that they are seeing something in him that you are missing because when your are head over heels things get a little fuzzy around the edges. See if you feel this way in one year.

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Question by Sandra: Everything has changed with them since i married! HELP!?
I am a newlywed and got married to my husband whom i was dating for 3 years. We decided to elope as my family & friends didn’t agree with me getting married to a rich Portuguese man of my dreams. He treats me like i am the only person in the world that matters & to him nothing is ever good enough for me and i love him so much, i can not imagine my life without him. He wants me to move to Portugal as he is working there at the moment and he normally travels for work so he wants me with him permanently. I hate when i am not with him, i am totally head over heals with him. My best friend was always there for me and i was there for him when he was battling coming clean from heroin. We grew up together and as my mom is a junkie & my dad is in prison and i am an only child, he was the only real family i had as well as my close friends. They hated the fact that i was going to move away and get married, everyone of them had a opinion about it and it is driving me crazy. When i said i got married they where all in shock and then said they couldn’t believe i got married without them being there.It feels like they can do what they like but i cant & i was always there for them. I feel like i have drifted away from my best friends but i cant stand anyone who talks crap about the man i love, he is my everything. How do i deal with this, i don’t want to leave things on bad terms when i go.
Thanks

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Answer by Nita R
I’m a bit confused. Is your husband the heroin addict friend?

Well…no matter….you hurt people that love you and you should try to mend things as best as you can. Good luck.

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